Lorsque nous planifions notre prochain voyage de noces de 13 jours en Italie, nous recherchons des retours pour savoir si notre itinéraire actuel semble trop chargé. Mon fiancé est particulièrement intéressé par la visite d'Assise, donc nous envisageons de le remplacer par Civita di Bagnoregio ou Pompéi, ou peut-être de réduire notre temps à Florence d'un jour.
À ce stade, nous avons uniquement confirmé notre hôtel à Rome, réservé pour neuf nuits. Si nous suivons ce plan ajusté, nous utiliserions huit de ces nuits, ce qui signifie que nous perdrons la valeur d'une nuit payée à l'avance. De plus, nous apprécierions beaucoup toute recommandation de restaurants pour les villes incluses dans nos voyages.
Votre question sur Assisi me rappelle notre propre dilemme lors de notre voyage de noces : nous avions aussi trop voulu en voir ! Réduire Florence d’une journée me semble risqué, car c’est une ville qui se savoure lentement. Avez-vous pensé à sacrifier la nuit déjà payée à Rome pour gagner du temps de transport ? Cela pourrait fluidifier votre circuit. Quels types de restaurants recherchez-vous en priorité : des adresses romantiques ou des tables authentiques de quartier ?
Merci de partager votre expérience, c’est vrai que le dilemme entre tout voir et savourer est typique d’un voyage de noces en Italie ! Votre idée de sacrifier la nuit prépayée à Rome pour gagner en fluidité est très judicieuse, car cela vous éviterait des retours tardifs à votre hôtel romain après des excursions à Assisi ou Pompéi. Pour des restaurants, je vous recommande de consulter les avis sur “Gambero Rosso” ou “Gusto” pour Rome, qui distinguent bien les tables authentiques des adresses romantiques. N’hésitez pas à nous dire ce que vous décidez pour Assisi !
Since you asked, I think your schedule is a bit too packed for a honeymoon, even though I understand wanting to see as much as possible. I’d prefer a more relaxed pace to enjoy time with my partner, but you may have different preferences.
Also, as others have mentioned, don’t skip Pompeii—it’s a unique experience. Just remember to bring a hat, as there’s a lot of walking in the sun.
Wishing you both a wonderful honeymoon and all the best for your future together.
I completely agree. It’s a difficult balance between wanting to see as much as possible and actually enjoying your time in this incredible city.
I’ve made the mistake of trying to pack too much into a trip before. It’s hard to shake the feeling that you’ll be disappointed if you miss something amazing, but you won’t see everything—these places have been here for centuries, and you can always return. There’s something truly magical about simply wandering the streets and stopping at a small trattoria for a bite, a drink, or dinner. Make sure you leave time to explore, wander, and truly experience the city.
I agree that your itinerary is too packed. Rome is best enjoyed without a strict schedule, as rushing through it can create anxiety and spoil the experience. Let the city guide you and take time to savor each moment.
For a honeymoon, I’d recommend spending more time in Italy’s smaller towns unless you’re particularly interested in art and history. Consider visiting places like Chianti or Orvieto between Rome and Florence. Staying overnight in a smaller town would make your trip much more special.
Your itinerary seems quite packed, which might leave little time for relaxation and intimacy during your honeymoon.
Don’t miss attending a match at Stadio Olimpico. It’s an essential part of the Rome experience.
Your itinerary looks wonderful for a honeymoon! It covers a lot of ground and offers great sightseeing and lovely experiences, so if you’re happy with a busy trip, you’ve nailed it. If you’re looking for a more relaxed pace, you might need to make a few adjustments, but that may not be your style.
For your day at the Pantheon and Sant’Ignazio, I recommend lunch at Pane e Salame, just a four-minute walk from the church. It’s a casual spot for sandwiches and sharing boards, and you can dine in with a sandwich and a bottle of wine, not just takeaway. It’s delicious—we’ve returned over the years for their “P” sandwich with porchetta and a glass of Montepulciano wine, and it has never disappointed. In our opinion, it’s better than the popular All’antico Vinaio, just not as well-known.
Have a fantastic trip—it sounds like you’re in for a lovely time!
You might find yourself too tired for romance on your honeymoon. Ideally, you’d have lazy mornings in bed without feeling guilty about disrupting your schedule.
Rome and Italy are amazing with so much to see, but I find the most joy comes from wandering and soaking it all in. You’ll likely return someday, even if for your 20th anniversary. Relax a bit and enjoy each other’s company along with this incredible place.
I’m relieved I’m not the one marrying you—this itinerary looks exhausting.
I completely agree with your itinerary.
Day 3 looks ambitious and could be tiring, but if you’re up for it, go ahead.
I had my destination wedding in Civita di Bagnoregio in 2014, and it’s absolutely magical. Recent YouTube videos suggest it’s more touristy and commercialized now, but I think you’ll still love it. How are you planning to get there? There’s a direct train from Termini to Orvieto, and from there, you can join tours or rent a car at the station. Orvieto is also quite special.
Assisi is beautiful and I can’t wait to revisit, though it’s a bit harder to reach.
I agree about Pienza—it’s probably my least favorite of the places I’ve visited in Tuscany and Umbria.
Feel free to DM if you’d like more suggestions. Enjoy your honeymoon!
Your Vatican day seems quite ambitious. Visiting the Sistine Chapel, St. Peter’s Basilica, the Vatican Museums, and the Vatican necropolises—if access is permitted—is a lot to cover in one day. You mentioned only admiring the sunset at Castel Sant’Angelo without entering, which helps, but the Vatican sites alone will require significant time.
This was a full day even without the dome visit, especially with the Scavi tour. We started with an early tour of the museums and then explored areas not included on the tour. After lunch and a break to rest our feet, we took the 2 p.m. Scavi tour, which concluded inside St. Peter’s. We left around 4:30 to 5 p.m.
We found the Vatican and Sistine Chapel didn’t take as long as expected since they rush you through. Be prepared for that experience to be a bit jarring—my husband got yelled at for lingering. I don’t think your planned day is too crammed, but it isn’t easygoing either. I’d still do it myself.
The Vatican Museums, including the Sistine Chapel, and St. Peter’s Basilica can be exhausting due to long lines and crowds. I skipped the tour and paid for fast-track entry, but we were still worn out afterward.
Ironically, Castel Sant’Angelo and its bridge were just a five-minute walk from where I stayed last year. It was one of our top three planned activities, but we never made it inside. If you don’t plan to tour the interior, I highly recommend visiting at sunset. I got close enough to take some beautiful photos from the outside, and it’s at the top of my list for my next trip to Rome.
We’re planning to drive to Civitá and then head straight to our Agriturismo in Val d’Orcia. Besides Pienza, are there any towns in Val d’Orcia you’d recommend? Or would you suggest skipping Pienza altogether to focus more on the cypress landscapes?
I’d recommend Montepulciano or Montalcino over Assisi, as you could visit both in much less driving time.
For somewhere less touristy, consider San Quirico d’Orcia. I stayed just one night at a boutique hotel there and can’t wait to return. It’s worth researching online to see if it interests you.
If you’re set on visiting Pienza but short on time, consider just having dinner at Tramanda’ Ristorante Veneria instead of a full visit. They don’t have a website, but you can find photos and menus on various sites.
Don’t skip Pompeii – it’s absolutely worth visiting.
This itinerary is more of a Rome trip than an Italy trip. With 13 days, you could spend 5 days in Rome, 3 in Florence or the vineyards, and finish with the Amalfi Coast and Pompeii. Ten days is quite long to stay in just one city.
This itinerary is not a good fit for a honeymoon.
Stay indoors for now; there will be plenty of time to travel later.
Consider adding the Amalfi Coast to your itinerary. You won’t regret it. I recommend taking the ferry to your accommodation to avoid driving on the winding coastal roads with buses.
This itinerary is overly micromanaged. It’s fine to have a general plan, but where is your sense of adventure? Do you also schedule your private time in another subreddit?
That’s a packed itinerary. Try to relax a bit—Rome won’t be as enjoyable if you’re tired.
Your itinerary may lead to fatigue with everything so tightly scheduled. Sticking to a strict timeline can be exhausting. Instead, keep a list of places you’d like to see but avoid setting specific times. See what you can, but take it easy. You’re there to enjoy the experience with your new spouse, so don’t burden yourselves.
If I were you, I would skip Pienza. I found it quite dirty and not particularly beautiful, with few things to do. Having visited Rome five times, I can say there are many better places to visit, such as Naples.
Also, avoid ordering a cappuccino in the evening, and enjoy your trip!
We enjoyed Pienza, though it’s been four years since our visit, so things may have changed. My partner is a big fan of the original Gladiator, and Maximus’ family home is located there. There are plenty of opportunities for photos in the wheat fields.
I have to disagree. Perhaps you visited Pienza on an off day? I was there just two weeks ago and found it very romantic with amazing views. The architecture was also lovely.
Assisi is stunning, and Civita is as well. What month are you visiting?
I did a similar trip and was exhausted by the end. It’s doable, but your body will be worn out. I even paid for a full body massage in Rome because I couldn’t go on without one. My main advice is to bring the most comfortable shoes you can find—you’ll be walking a lot, often on cobblestone. Allow yourself to cancel plans and rest when needed.
As a 30-year-old, I was completely exhausted after visiting the Vatican, Sistine Chapel, and St. Peter’s—our tour involved 3.5 hours of continuous walking. You’ll pass Castel d’Angelo on the way there or back if coming from the other side of the river, but I’d recommend visiting it on another day. We did a pasta-making class near the Vatican about two hours after the tour, which gave us time to recharge with an Aperitivo. It was a lot of fun and included wine. I believe we booked it through Airbnb, but there are many similar classes available in Rome if you’re interested.
I would also recommend a bike tour of Rome. Electric bike tours are a relaxing and enjoyable way to explore the city and its outskirts. We booked with Top Bike Tours and had an excellent experience.
Having traveled extensively in Italy, I found Bagnoregio to be quite disappointing. While it is undeniably beautiful and makes for a nice photo from the footbridge, the town itself is tiny, remote, and overcrowded with tourists. It also charges an entrance fee. In my opinion, it’s not worth the trip. I would recommend using that day to relax and give your itinerary some breathing room, or visit a more rewarding city like Orvieto instead.
Your itinerary is too packed.
When I travel, I prefer to enjoy the vacation and improvise, asking hotel staff for advice.